{"id":3202,"date":"2018-10-20T15:38:59","date_gmt":"2018-10-20T02:38:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/?p=3202"},"modified":"2021-03-01T15:43:31","modified_gmt":"2021-03-01T02:43:31","slug":"personal-self-growth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/personal-self-growth\/","title":{"rendered":"Personal Self Growth"},"content":{"rendered":"<section id=\"bt_bb_section66170def5b30e\" class=\"bt_bb_section bt_bb_layout_wide bt_bb_vertical_align_top\"  data-bt-override-class=\"null\"><div class=\"bt_bb_port\"><div class=\"bt_bb_cell\"><div class=\"bt_bb_cell_inner\"><div class=\"bt_bb_row_wrapper\"><div  class=\"bt_bb_row\"  data-bt-override-class=\"{}\"><div  class=\"bt_bb_column col-xxl-9 col-xl-9 col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-9 bt_bb_vertical_align_top bt_bb_align_left bt_bb_padding_normal\"  data-width=\"9\" data-bt-override-class=\"{&quot;bt_bb_align_&quot;:{&quot;current_class&quot;:&quot;bt_bb_align_left&quot;,&quot;xxl&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;xl&quot;:&quot;left&quot;}}\"><div class=\"bt_bb_column_content\"><div class=\"bt_bb_column_content_inner\"><div class=\"bt_bb_separator bt_bb_border_style_none bt_bb_bottom_spacing_medium\" data-bt-override-class=\"null\"><\/div><div class=\"bt_bb_image bt_bb_shape_square bt_bb_target_self bt_bb_align_inherit bt_bb_hover_style_simple bt_bb_content_display_always bt_bb_content_align_middle\" data-bt-override-class=\"{&quot;bt_bb_align_&quot;:{&quot;current_class&quot;:&quot;bt_bb_align_inherit&quot;,&quot;xxl&quot;:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;xl&quot;:&quot;inherit&quot;}}\"><span><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Jasnish-wall-2018.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"I need to think 10X, which is 10x bigger than I am.\" data-full_image_src=\"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Jasnish-wall-2018.jpg\" title=\"I need to think 10X, which is 10x bigger than I am.\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Jasnish-wall-2018.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Jasnish-wall-2018-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Jasnish-wall-2018-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Jasnish-wall-2018-320x213.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"bt_bb_separator bt_bb_border_style_none bt_bb_bottom_spacing_normal\" data-bt-override-class=\"null\"><\/div><header class=\"bt_bb_headline bt_bb_dash_none bt_bb_size_small bt_bb_align_inherit\" data-bt-override-class=\"{}\"><h3 class=\"bt_bb_headline_tag\"><span class=\"bt_bb_headline_content\"><span >This blog is a bit more personal than I usually write about but it\u2019s important for me to share my recent experiences.<\/span><\/span><\/h3><\/header><div class=\"bt_bb_separator bt_bb_border_style_none bt_bb_bottom_spacing_normal\" data-bt-override-class=\"null\"><\/div><div  class=\"bt_bb_text\" ><p>It\u2019s been an awesome 6 weeks since seeing Tony Robbins, I made a decision to go back to seeing my old mentor who I thought of and missed daily and because of her I have had huge growth and huge self-realisation \u2013 it\u2019s insane!!<\/p>\n<p>My goal story \u2013 I have a goal of reaching a net worth of $500m in 25 years\u2019 time (now 24) and I had done the whole \u201c5 Why\u2019s\u201d and broken it down but it still felt incomplete. Now the story \u2013 I went to a Kourek Ashley event (which was excellent) and there he asked people to raise their hands and tell everyone their goals. Eleanor my wife raises her hand and says hers and then eggs me on to raise mine but I fumble, get shy and feel embarrassed. The next few days I was bothered, annoyed and frustrated why I couldn\u2019t share my goad and why I was embarrassed. So, I raised this with my mentor and worked through it. One I was a little shy (which is easy to overcome), but the main reason was I didn\u2019t believe in it because I couldn\u2019t feel my emotion being poured into it. Then after working it through with my mentor we untangled the web and I finally came up with my real emotional why\u2019s \u2013 I want to enjoy the journey, I want to experience the excitement ( which is one of my values) I want huge personal growth and I want the friendships, the sightseeing and all that comes with the $500m, being a philanthropist.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"bt_bb_separator bt_bb_border_style_none bt_bb_bottom_spacing_normal\" data-bt-override-class=\"null\"><\/div><div  class=\"bt_bb_text\" ><p>My assertiveness story \u2013 I have been working on this for over 2-3 years now and till last month it was just a word and I knew I needed to work on it. In one of our sessions I had a huge breakthrough that to succeed in business (to get to my $500m goal) I will need to be Assertive and not let people ride all over me, justify for incompetence and not let anyone hold my future back. To this point I have been ripped off by a lot of people and trust people easily \u2013 taken people through bankruptcy, tribunal, and all sorts of stuff. I know this will keep happening again and again till I changed myself and stopped being a target nothing. So I\u2019ve started being firm and its great for self-confidence, being able to differentiate friendship from work and not crossing those boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>The photo above is my mood boards, goals, values and all those positive items in my life.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div  class=\"bt_bb_column col-xxl-3 col-xl-3 col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-3 bt_bb_vertical_align_top bt_bb_align_left bt_bb_padding_normal bt_bb_hidden_xs bt_bb_hidden_ms bt_bb_hidden_sm\"  data-width=\"3\" data-bt-override-class=\"{&quot;bt_bb_align_&quot;:{&quot;current_class&quot;:&quot;bt_bb_align_left&quot;,&quot;xxl&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;xl&quot;:&quot;left&quot;}}\"><div class=\"bt_bb_column_content\"><div class=\"bt_bb_column_content_inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><!-- cell_inner --><\/div><!-- cell --><\/div><!-- port --><\/section>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog is a bit more personal than I usually write about but it\u2019s important for me to share my recent experiences.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3203,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3202"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3202"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3202\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3203"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3202"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3202"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nestorinvest.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3202"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}